Toms River Family Stunned by Outpouring of Help
Santa, Toms River Fire Company 1 surprise children with gift delivery, courtesy of the generosity of Toms River residents and businesses
Amid the glowing lights of the homes that lined the street just off Route 37, the house stood out for its starkness. No decorations in the yard. No lights twinkling from the roof or the windows.
Only the glow of a Christmas tree in the living room indicated that Christmas was coming, and coming soon.
From the street, cars could be seen zooming along Route 37, many of them likely shoppers buying their last Christmas gifts.
Then, lights appeared at the end of the street. Flashing lights, soon accompanied by sirens broke the quiet of the rainy night. It’s the kind of combination that, just before Christmas, often brings with it bad news. But on this night, the sirens were actually tidings of joy.
No one was more surprised when the trucks from Toms River Fire Company 1 rolled to a stop in front of his house than Kieth, who darted out the door to see what the fuss was about.
The 6-year-old came face-to-face with the Big Man himself: Santa Claus, who had just stepped off the fire truck.
After staring for a moment or two, the questions began.
“Are you one of Santa’s helpers?” he asked, and Santa assured him that no, he was the real thing.
In the family’s cozy living room, with Santa sitting on his couch, Kieth continued to ask questions.
“Well, you’re not very fat,” Kieth said.
“Mrs. Claus made me go on a diet,” Santa replied, as DJ, 4, opened a present. “Rudolph and Donner weren’t very happy with me last year.”
McKinzie, 11, just smiled and quietly waited her turn.
Lynsay Leitner and Rich Walton took in the scene of their blended family, snapping photos and soaking in the moments of what is just the beginning of what will be a very memorable Christmas for their family.
It is a Christmas memory created out of the generosity of dozens of families and businesses in Toms River and beyond, thanks to the fire company. It has become an annual project for the company, one that began more than 10 years ago, said Carl Weingroff, who organizes the annual effort.
“We used to hold a party for our own families, but we realized there were so many people out there who weren’t as fortunate as us,” Weingroff said. The company picks a school each year and approaches the principal for recommendations of which families need help. Then the fire company picks one, and reaches out to the family for suggestions of what they need and some of the children’s Christmas wishes.
“Nothing extravagant,” Rich said, “but just some of the toys they’ve wished for.”
Weingroff – who takes monetary donations and then does the Christmas shopping, often with the aid of his sister – said the effort matters to him because it reminds the world “there are people out there who aren’t selfish.”
The reactions of the recipients every year make it very special, Weingroff said.
“Even though she knew we were coming, just the expression on Lynsay’s face said how grateful she was,” he said. “And the dad had a tear in his eye when we told him about the crib for the new baby.”
The crib was supposed to be a surprise for the family, but logistical problems getting it into the house forced the firefighters to tip their hand on that gift.
Lynsay has been out of work for two years, after the stair railing company where she was an office manager went out of business in the economic downturn. Rich, who worked for a solar company, has been out of work for four months.
Christmas was going to be very sparse as a result, they said.
“The house is in foreclosure,” Rich said, and the family – which will include another child come June, as Lynsay is pregnant – will be moving with their two Chihuahuas, Spageeto and Peanut, to Pennsylvania, near Rich’s family, Lynsay said.
“The kids know we’re losing the house and that we have to move,” she said, “but it hasn’t really set in for them yet.”
While the children opened gifts, a steady parade of volunteers carried bags of food into the kitchen, while others stowed more Christmas gifts in the family’s basement.
The donations received from as far away as Ohio included more than a dozen gift cards – some to area businesses, others that were simply Visa or MasterCard gift cards.
“We can use these for gas,” Lynsay said to Rich.
After each child opened a gift, there was one more wish to fulfill.
“One of Kieth’s wishes was to go for a ride on a fire truck,” Weingroff said, so the children piled out the door – Kieth was the first in line – and into the back with one of the firefighters. With everyone buckled in, the Fire Company 1 truck took a trip around the block, with the lights flashing and the siren sounding as the kids set it off.
“There’s a lot of needy families in the area,” Rich said. “We’re just one of the fortunate ones who got helped.”
“We would like to send out a big thank you to everyone who contributed,” Lynsay said. “It’s helped them have a Christmas that is much more than it would have been otherwise.”
“We would especially like to thank Mr. (Michael) Pallen, the principal at West Dover, for thinking of us,” Rich said.
Weingroff said the following groups, organizations and people contributed donations: Toms River Volunteer Fire Company No. 1’s officers and members; the Weingroff families, Beachwood, the Weingroff-Mansueto family, Beachwood; CrossRoads Realty, Toms River; Rita Powers Casting Group, New York; the Stesner-McNally family, Bayville; the Collins Crusaders, Bayville; employees of Glendenning Mortgage, Toms River, the all-new World Class ShopRite, Route 37, Toms River; Chapman Family McDonalds; members of The Kiwanis Club of Toms River-Day Break group; Joey D’s Brick Oven Pizza, Toms River, Simply Sun Tanning, Toms River, Honda of Toms River, Route 37; Bubbakoo’s Burritos, Toms River; the Smith family, Toms River; the Zeh Family, Toms River; the Melillo family, Beachwood; the Tunney family, Toms River; the Dusha family, Ohio; the Carangelo Family, Spotswood; Applebee’s, Ocean County Mall; Five Guys, Toms River; Fortune Buffet, Toms River; Model Nails & Spa, Toms River; Capone’s, Toms River; IHOP, Toms River; BJ’s, Toms River; Toms River Regional Schools – West Dover Elementary School Guidance Office.
Garcia
7:04 pm on Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Why can't people act like civilized human beings in the comment section???
mike
8:08 pm on Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Like I care what you have say Mattie.
BN
8:17 pm on Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Nobody cares what Mattie thinks. She's the self-appointed thought-monitor of the Patch. God forbid you disagree with her. She's free to post snotty condescending remarks under the guise of sarcasm, but when others do it she reads them the riot act and hurls epithets. If you want civility Mattie, practice what you preach.
Mattie
8:48 pm on Wednesday, December 21, 2011
I make it a point NOT to call names or otherwise be unduly rude to people here.
You are a liar. That's not calling a name- that's a fact. You are lying.
BN
9:50 pm on Wednesday, December 21, 2011
See: http://lacey.patch.com/articles/two-forked-river-teens-charged-with-theft-of-storm-grates
2 posts :: flagged :: for being abusive and rude
And these little gems:
"If you mean-spirited, rude, gossiping people are examples of typical Lacy residents, I am sooooo glad I don't live there."
"And then you have the (mentally unstable?) ones who get on their soap box and rant and rave about the same thing-- over and over again - like M'Linda Kula above" (note the "calling out" of another poster)
then there's this: http://tomsriver.patch.com/articles/van-driver-in-rte-70-accident-charged-with-vehicular-homicide-under-the-influence
"I wonder what this country would be like if people were as "anti-immigrant" (as most of you people are) back in the late 1800s and early 1900s."
"You are all very sad people with very sad lives and souls as black as coal."
...and let us not forget your since-delted obvious attempt at baiting people by posting FIRST about the teens in the car accident : http://tomsriver.patch.com/articles/seven-teens-in-vehicle-hospitalized-after-car-crashes-into-tree
Mattie
7:06 am on Thursday, December 22, 2011
BN Grow up. My making observations regarding people posting nasty, libelous, mean-spirited posts and calling them out on it is NOT the same as BEING THAT PERSON making mean-spirited, nasty posts calling people Morons, idiots, etc.
You really need a life.
What Mike said above is nasty, rude and, most importantly, completely UNNECESSARY.
You want to back him up and attack me at the same time? Go for it. But never, EVER include me with the likes of you two.
Those who behave like rude bullies need to be called out, and I'm not afraid to do it. Your posts deserve to be deleted and if calling attention to them gets that done, then so be it.
Mommy
8:38 pm on Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Mattie, i would like to thank you for your comment.....I am the mother to be in this article and to say such horrible things is cruel and un-needed at this time of year. My mother (the grand-ma of the children and my unborn child) would like you ignorant people to know that the miracle of life is just that a miracle!!! Just because we have fallen on hard times in this down economy does not mean that this miracle should not be born. Everyone falls on hard times and all we can do is make the best of it. I would like to personally thank all the volunteers for making our Christmas a Christmas that will truely be special and memorable!!! Merry Christmas to all and god bless.
Mattie
8:49 pm on Wednesday, December 21, 2011
have a Great Christmas, Mommy- be well and many blessings. And good luck in your move to PA!
kimberly
10:00 pm on Wednesday, December 21, 2011
This all occurred on my block last last night, and my boys ran up to see that everything was Ok, (due to fact that we had a fire 2 years ago, so they were concerned) and then were so touched to see what was going on. I have shared this article with them so they understand. They understand what generosity is. They were treated very nicely by the firemen, and were amazed of what was going on. West Dover is a wonderful school with wonderful faculty and administration who care about their students and families. I know this first hand. I hope that they brought a little something for the chihuahua's, I too have a chihuahua, and I understand how excited they get at christmas time. LOL
PS Mike that was not an appropriate comment to make under the circumstances.
PSS Mommy.....God Bless!!
Karen Wall
12:05 am on Thursday, December 22, 2011
Mike, as the author of the article it's exactly comments like yours that made me hesitant about what details to include. As someone who suffered five miscarriages trying to have a second child, I applaud Rich and Lynsay for the choice they've made despite very difficult circumstances. It's so easy to be judgmental and so hard for some people to be compassionate.
Mommy
8:31 am on Thursday, December 22, 2011
Kimberly sorry for the scare we had a lot of neighbors that thought the house was on fire but when they saw Santa they were very pleased. Thank you for sharing the article with your family, i know my daughter plays with your boys she has a lot of fun with them. I have to say I agree with you that West Dover is a wonderful school and both my children love it very much, it will be a sad day when we have to move and they no longer go there. I hope you guys have a blessed Christmas.
Karen Wall thank you for everything, the article is beautiful, i have shared it with many of my out-of-state family and they enjoyed it. It was wonderful having you in our home on that very special night, Merry Christmas and god bless to you and your family.
Missy on Onyx
9:11 am on Thursday, December 22, 2011
Mommy, I hope you have a wonderful holiday. People dont understand, until they fall on hard times themselves what it's like or maybe they did at one point, and that experience made them bitter or insensitive to people currently experiencing their nightmare. Feelings of uncertainty, fear, inadequacy etc. especially this time of year, when it seems everyone around them are revelling in joyous excess, (love that Lexus commerical) are compounded when you have children, and want nothing but the best for them. My wish for you and your family is a prosperous New Year, filled with happiness, health and so much more luck. Merry Christmas!