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VIDEO: Sandy Survivor: 'I Thought I Made a Fatal Mistake'

A man who rode out Sandy's landfall tells his story of that night on the island most devastated by the storm's fury

Charlie Lord has seen his share of storms come through the Jersey Shore.

The 55-year resident of Lavallette remembers '62. He remembers the Halloween storm of 1991, the Perfect Storm, the December 1992 nor'easter that tore up much of the Jersey Shore, and he remembers the close calls of Hurricane Gloria in 1985 and, of course, Hurricane Irene in 2011.

He figured that Hurricane Sandy would be no different.

"My wife wanted to leave but I said no," Lord said, a few days after he finally got off the island. "Next time, I'll go."

For a frightening hour on Oct. 30, Lord said, he wasn't sure they were going to survive.

When the ocean breached the dunes, he said, the water rose quickly around his Vance Avenue home. Within minutes his front yard was flooded, and quickly the water reached the second step of his home.

"As I was standing there, a chunk of something came up, our porch lifted up and crashed," and pieces went everywhere, he said. "At that point I looked at my wife and said, 'I think I made a fatal mistake. I am sorry.' "

"I wish to hell I'd gotten off when the governor told us to get off," he said. "He was right."

Hear Charlie tell his story in his own words by clicking the video above.

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doreen November 12, 2012 at 02:32 pm
I personally think this man should spend some time in jail for totally disregarding the govenors orders and see what he thinks about that. I deem him as being stupid and selfish for putting himself, his wife and the first responders in harms way. And one more thought, doesn't his wife have a mind of her own..to say I'm out of here.
Andy Barcellona November 12, 2012 at 03:16 pm
Well after all is said and done I think everyone who is warned in the future should take it serious. Just because you lived their all of your life and think you know how to survive a disaster when you are told to get out then do so.
We have a big advantage when it comes to a disaster warning. You have time to leave as opposed to an earthquake or tornado. This was something that dominated the news for days prior and if that wasn't enough to shake up people then what is? They were extremely lucky families to be able to talk about it now.
Marianne November 12, 2012 at 03:17 pm
I don't see him as a hero either. At the time he thought he knew what he was doing, then quickly found out he was wrong. He admitted it and maybe his story will help some other poor soul should something like this happen again. Maybe I am morbid, but I like to hear stories about how people survive and what really happened while the storm was raging. His wife has free will, she could have left him there, but she most likely also made the decision to stay. I want to hear the stories of all who stayed. They are not heros, just ordinary people who bad very bad decisions, but at the time they did not know how bad this storm was going to be.
Mr J November 12, 2012 at 03:34 pm
Did he really want to leave? Or does that that help sweeten his story at the bar... Each time it changes a little and only the bartender knows for sure.. I agree with all no hero here...
Just another liability our hard working rescue personnel have to put there life on the line for.
Mr J November 12, 2012 at 03:36 pm
Christie on Hurricane Sandy: Don't Be Stupid, Being Dead Isn't Good
wombat November 12, 2012 at 07:23 pm
Nobody said he was a hero. You people made that up to knock him down. I think its great and unselfish that he shared his experience with us and it might make some people think twice before staying behind during an evacuation next time.
mjmjr November 12, 2012 at 08:57 pm
JUST ANOTHER IDIOT
none of yobusiness November 13, 2012 at 03:57 am
Instead of making videos maybe he should go take a shower,shave and get a haircut.
Brick Prick November 13, 2012 at 12:34 pm
Don't worry where I obtain the info Redonred that is not the point, there are many like him,, You don't have to be my friend or family to obtain info about you...
I didnt disrespect the EMS Rescue, I simply was pointing that Charlie Lord did not listen!!!! I take precautions on every bad weather that is projected to our area. It's not just this guy! it's a lot of them. If the media came up to me and asked me I would of ran the other runaway for being so stupid!!
Brick Prick November 13, 2012 at 05:56 pm
lololololol !!!!
Brick Prick November 13, 2012 at 06:07 pm
Addition!!
READ WHAT HE SAID ONE MORE TIME!! If you dont get it read it again REDONRED This guy lives through HURRICANES !!!! He is a Problem the next one you may find him floating stomach down Charlie Lord has seen his share of storms come through the Jersey Shore. The 55-year resident of Lavallette remembers '62. """He remembers the Halloween storm of 1991, the Perfect Storm, the December 1992 nor'easter that tore up much of the Jersey Shore, and he remembers the close calls of Hurricane Gloria in 1985""" and, of course, Hurricane Irene in 2011. He figured that Hurricane Sandy would be no different. There you go a person that does not know any better!!!
heather k November 13, 2012 at 09:18 pm
Ya know... A lot of people that have a lot to say probably weren't devastated by the hurricane. I lost my home and everything in it... I evacuated as I was told, and if I.stayed I would have drowned, the water level was over six feet high in my home. I literally have the clothes on my back, the few things I packed, and most importantly, my life... But I am going through emotional Hell, just trying to grasp everything is gone.... I don't think this guy was smart, but I'm not going to be so low and juvenile to make fun of his appearance.... Not everyone just lost power... Whatever the reason for this article, I can assure you, it wasn't published to mock the poor guy. Have some compassion.
Karen Wall November 13, 2012 at 09:50 pm
As the author, I published his story because of the fact that he said -- like so many people did before the storm -- that he didn't think this storm was going to be a big deal. I published his story because he says, bluntly, that he was wrong, and that in the future he will leave. He says he made a mistake.
What I hope is that others who stayed -- or those who think about staying in the future -- will listen to his story and see themselves in him, and will listen to what he's saying, that he should have gotten out. That's why I thought this story was important to share.
Watza November 13, 2012 at 10:56 pm
Karen Wall, I think it was a great story and it was important to share. Hopefully it should help others to heed warning in future storms. I don't think anybody is going to ever forget this storm on the East Coast. Now, most will take all storms more serious because of what has happened and those who stayed and experienced this storm. In sharing their own experience and the reasons they should not have stayed might just might prevent others from trying this very same thing this man did. This man came forward and admitted he was wrong. He figured it was like all the other storms and was wrong. He was not the only one and I am sure all of them will never do it again. Thankfully they all learned by their mistake to let others know not to follow in their foot steps to do something as foolish. This man admitted to it as others did in their stories. Calling names is childish and you never know what you might be up against in any situation. AT times we can all make the wrong choices and regret it.
KC November 15, 2012 at 07:33 am
I think Mr. Lord made a mistake as he is honest enough to admit. However I find some of the commentary very judgemental in tone. If you listened to him, he said he didn't have many options on where to go especially because of having pets. As it is, he relegated to a couch. I think he should be credited for at least admitting to a mistake.
KC November 15, 2012 at 07:34 am
Yah in the house he no longer has?
Brick Prick November 15, 2012 at 03:37 pm
Karen wall. It is a great story and you covered well !! I'm sure why you had to explain why you covered it that's your job!! That's what you do!! I think your fantastic writer!
But the blame is not on you it is the people that stay behind, is the problem. You posted that this guy stayed just like the last 4 or 5 hurricanes he lived through, I lived on the water in LBI all my life. We bought a home here and I decided to stay out of the flood zone! I do not want that problem anyway you know when you post about the good and bad stories people are going to comment positive and negitive. People get personal too. I don't know why you deleted my post. I wasn't a problem. I was merely pointing out how people are. I think you should of left it but you have the control so be it
Jay Gee November 15, 2012 at 05:50 pm
I AGREE, WHOLEHEARTEDLY
Jay Gee November 15, 2012 at 05:51 pm
GUESS HE MIGHT, WHEN HE HAS A PLACE TO DO IT! SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST SO...............................FILL IN THE BLANKS......THERE, I SAID NOTHING WRONG.............
Jay Gee November 15, 2012 at 05:51 pm
YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT WOMBAT
Jay Gee November 15, 2012 at 05:53 pm
MAYBE............MAYBE NOT! WHO IS TO JUDGE OR SAY FOR SURE....NOT SOME POSTERS, THEIR IMMATURE! .....................................POETIZING.
Jay Gee November 15, 2012 at 05:54 pm
GIRL AFTER MY OWN HEART....WELL, BASICALLY, MY AGREEING MIND!
Jay Gee November 15, 2012 at 05:55 pm
MHMMM. MHMMM. YES, MHMM. LUCKY FOR SURE!
Jay Gee November 15, 2012 at 05:55 pm
UGH!
Jay Gee November 15, 2012 at 05:57 pm
GOTCHA BRICK P..............TRUE. I MIGHTA DONE THAT TOO!
Brick Prick November 16, 2012 at 02:12 pm
My spidey. Senses tell me that. JAY GEE is Charlie Lord
Mmmmm
Jay Gee November 16, 2012 at 07:59 pm
TEE HEE, TEE HEE,
COULD BE ME, BUT THEN AGAIN IF I'M A SHE YOU KNOW NOT WHO I PROFESS TO BE I MAY BE A WITCH FROM THE BROOM FACTORY....AH HA HA HA HA HA HAHA! WITCHEVER. I'M HAPPY THE LORD MADE IT OUT. THE LORD WAS WITH HIM...OR ME. DONTCHA SEE.............COULD IT HAVE BEEN ME??????????????????
Brick Prick November 17, 2012 at 02:54 pm
Jay gee.
Congratulations. !!! You made it to being certified white trash!!! Stick the broom up in you know where
Andy November 18, 2012 at 04:56 am
Maybe think of it as a first hand warning for future storms.
alyse November 30, 2012 at 06:09 pm
hiii
Note Article
Just a short thought to get the word out quickly about anything in your neighborhood.
Share something with your neighbors. Write a new post... What's up? Make an announcement, speak your mind, or sell something
Ortley fulltimer June 8, 2013 at 04:01 pm
Great story! Glad to hear your on your way back. Also happy to see someone else noticing that inRead More some places it still looks like Sandy hit yesterday. Some mayors might consider that "complaining".
christine June 8, 2013 at 04:25 pm
To George ~ that is so unfair...plain and simple.
Av June 8, 2013 at 05:02 pm
I live under a gin mill oh yeah me and milk jug